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Matt Doughtie
Grace Doughtie
Collins Doughtie
The Memorial Service for Tim Doughtie
A Meditation by John M. Miller
Porter Thompson
David Lauderdale
Paul deVere
"T-Bone Dough"
Young Dawkins
Val Curry
Nancy Brooks
Phil Porter | Photos from Phil
Wendy Allen
Patrick Chassereau
Joe McLain
Lisa Ashcraft
Cindy Noll Palkowski
Bonnie Snyder
Jim Morgan
Maggie Rojas Westbury
Howard J. Rankin PhD
Ron Romain
Jane Stouffer
Terry Sagedy
Molly A. Morgan
Pat Caruso Unsicker
Elizabeth Breeze
Bob Koehler
Jennifer Asnip Quattlebaum
Peter C. McDonald
Ellen Jacob
Kathleen Webster
Nick Zaharias
Jake Lambrecht
 
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Phil Porter
 
Sounding like an echo of what so many have expressed, I feel a huge void with Tim’s passing. We didn’t “bump” into each other very often, but it was so special when we did. Like the time we happened upon each other at breakfast in McDonalds. I reminded him about the time a photo made the newspaper of Matthew pulling his lemonade stand on his wagon when he was a young boy. Our conversation drifted from our kids to Little League baseball. When I asked if he ever coached, he kept me in stitches for quite some time recollecting his only stint as a coach. It involved a hopelessly losing season and one game that was almost won. He was the third base coach and the tying (or winning) runner was rounding third. According to Tim, he was caught up in the moment and literally grabbed the little runner and threw him towards home plate. He said it all seemed to happen in slow motion, and when it was over he never coached again. You can imagine Tim telling this story in his animated and entertaining way. That was one of the things I liked most about him. The punch-line to a joke was OK, but it was the story-telling leading up to the punch-line that was always so unique and special.
 

Tim’s nickname for me was, “Mr. Phil.” It was a take-off of the Saturday Night Live sketch of a play-dough character named “Mr. Bill” that was always getting decapitated or crushed flat. For a long time he would call me when one of his ads in The Packet ran incorrectly and say, “Oooooh noooooo, Mr. Phillll!” He even made a piece of art for me with a “Mr. Phil” play-dough doll skewered with a lag screw through an advertising placement order. The verbiage on the order was hilarious!

Tim was the best about sending nice notes of thanks, encouragement, or just greetings. When I went from selling advertising to selling real estate, he offered me the simple advice, that it shouldn’t be much of a change from “selling square inches to selling square feet.” I often received notes from his “Ernest “Bud” Crowley.” And the ink stamps on the letterhead and envelopes were priceless. I’ve attached some from a note he sent once.

I have so many stories I will cherish about Tim. I wish so much that I had one more chance to share some stories and laughs with him. But Tim will always bring me fond remembrances and a smile to my face, even as he did Sunday when the Campbell brothers read the 23rd Psalm. All I could think about were a couple of examples of Tim’s creative fun. One was, “My rod and my reel, they comfort me.” St. Pete: 12 lb. Test.  The other was “Make thy ball lie in green pastures, not in still waters.” Arnie -3: par 72
I’m sure St. Pete is in stitches even as we speak.